Love in the Time of Grilled Cheese

So it seems that there are two different types of people. The first type being the tomato souper. Now this person is not very good on their own. They're runny, bland, and don't have their own "shape." That is to say not boring, but without direction. But combine them with a grilled cheese sandwich type person who is solid, delicious on their own, multi-layered, and full of complex carbs, and you get magic. The tomato soup person is given a shape, is given a purpose, and in that environment they thrive. They now become important and can actually accomplish things.

The grilled cheese sandwich person is the kind of person who is definitely (yesss spelled "definitely" right on the first try this time!) good on their own...but they are not great. They need that tomato soup person to make them the best that they can be. The tomato soup person fills in the cracks and air bubbles of their personality smoothing things over and making them whole. With the tomato soup person involved you are willing to forgive the crust and the black charcoaly burns because it just tastes so mindblowlingly and life alteringly good.

Now sometimes a tomato soup person will be in a relationship with another tomato soup person. Neither will have direction or purpose and the relationship will become cold and even more boring than it was in the first place. Conversely grilled cheese sandwich people will be in relationships with other grilled cheese sandwich people. This combination has a better chance of working out because both people are the main part of the meal. They both have a lot to bring to the table. However, neither of them adds to the relationship because it is just about them as individuals. I mean I can eat two grilled cheese sandwiches but by the second im quite full. Its just a lot of the same you know?

Really its about finding that person that compliments you as a human being (not like hey nice hair and stuff but like works well with you like... and i hate myself for saying this... a scarf that maybe compliments like, i dunno, a hat or something...shut up) and not someone who is you. Its nice to have similar tastes but its about completion and making each other into the best they can be ... that and food.